there is this guy that i really like. lets call him josh. now theres this other guy (a real creeper) who kept staring at me and my boobs ALL DAY.
when josh saw this, he got really pissed off, as did the rest of my class. then we all pretty much ganged up on the creeper and no one talked to him and they were all very mean to him, but especially josh. i used to laugh whenever he would say mean things and threaten the creeper
recently, the creeper guy appoligized to me, and hasnt stared at me since. hes actually being really nice and i feel terrible about being so mean.
i want to tell josh that i actually dont mind the kid anymore, but i kinda like the way he used to protect me. im scared that hell be upset with me if i tell him to back off.
what should i do?
How do i tell him?
just tell him dat creeper is quite nowadays and he didnt even look at me after u scold him
and say a thanks to josh
hop everything goes well...ask more doubts..
Reply:I suggest you just leave it. As long as things are good with you and josh, i don't see the need to try and be nice to the "creeper".
Reply:i think you are missing his stare actually. if not then be happy.
Reply:Just be honest, yes it feels good to be protected but the other guy has apologised to you,''Josh'', can still watch you're back but from a distance :)
Reply:...tell Josh you appreciate his "coming to your aid"..but that the kid apologized and took the higher road...you and Josh and the other kids need to do the same thing...and leave this kid alone...he made a mistake and might not have meant anything "sinister" but was just inexperienced and "starstruck" by you.......always be honest and if Josh continues to harass this kid ,then HE has issues and should be dumped...why be scared...it was your problem, and it's been solved......of course you like the way he protected you but is it worth the flattery and ego boost to continue at an innocent pperson's expense?you know what to do, or you wouldn't have asked this question...your concience is trying to talk to you....listen to it.....do the right thing...not the easy thing...or popular thing(that teens are so famous for).......it's one of those things that points you down the road of having character instead of down the road of being a "cheesy" follower.....dedicated to fitting in with the crowd, who wouldn't be there if you were in any disparaging position....be your own person...OWN your own decisions...let the other people follow you......they will secretly admire your strength and fortitude......you are not to young to understand this answer.....don't let your ego rule your integrity...these are your formative years......old chinese proverb.......sow a thought, reap an act......sow an act, reap a habit......sow a habit, reap a destiny.........
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