Tuesday, January 31, 2012

If your 16 how would you invite a girl to your house?

Ive known this girl for a year and a half now and i like her but i d ont know how to ask her out or invite her to anything it seems that if i did she would think im some weird creeper, how do you go from small conversation to asking eachother out on a date?

If your 16 how would you invite a girl to your house?
That's cute:)



I'm not a dating expert, but i am a girl so maybe i can voice a female opinion about your situation.



So you've known her awhile, huh? Well if you're insecure about asking her straightforwardly, then try starting with something small to get to know her. Like maybe asking for help on homework or if you know she likes to play sports or something. If you know her interests, then it's more likely she will like to participate in that activity. And sometimes it's easier to start with something more of a group activity than just you and her. Maybe also getting to know her friends will help you in the long run.



And compliment her. Don't be too excessive, but every once in awhile a girl likes to hear compliments. If she tries a new look or if she's smart and scores really high on a test or something, tell her. Girls like guys who notice. But still be aware not to be too overflowing with complements, because the girl will begin to think you're fake or a "player."



Once she gets to know you better, she will feel more comfortable around you and more likely to say "yes" when you finally ask her over. And if you make a good impression to her friends, then they won't be too suspicious either:)





Hope that helps!
Reply:take her to the movies or throw a party
Reply:I wouldn't ask her to your house just yet but I would advise just saying something like"We should hang out sometime" If she says yeah get her number if you don't already have then go to the movies or something. Maybe do something more spontaneous depending on what kind of girl she is.
Reply:the trick with seeing a movie works
Reply:throw a party or asl if u want 2 go to town or the cinema just ask her out
Reply:If all you've been having is small talk, then try inviting a few of your friends to your house (at least 2, maybe 3 or 4) to your house. Then be like "hey elizabeth, a few of my friends are coming over to my house today to watch a movie, wanna come?" that way, your friends can entertain themselves while you talk to the girl ooor if the conversation with the girl seems to be awkwardly going nowhere, you can bring your buddies into the convo.
Reply:just casually be like... so what are you plans this weekend.. well if you don't have anything going on.. would you want to come over to my house for a movie night. or if you guys are talking about a new movie to see, you can be like oh do you want to see that sometime.. more chances than none the girl is nervous too.. and just relax.. just be the sweet guy that you seem to be. good luck!
Reply:First, has she been over to your house at all? If no, then don't even go there.



Second, since you want to ask this lady out for a date, then grab the bull by the horns and just ask her. Tell her that you like her and want to get to know her better. Would she care to join you for lunch on a Saturday afternoon? Nothing fancy, just an opportunity for you two to talk and spend time together.



Third, be decisive. Ask her a specific question that's not open ended. For example, "would you like to go to coffee sometime" is not decisive. "Would you like to go to coffee Saturday morning" is being decisive.



Lastly, what's your end goal? You are only 16 and I trust you don't have ulterior motives. If you do, leave them at the door. There is nothing worse than a guy trying to date someone for their own selfish pleasures. You will wind up hurting her and yourself!
Reply:aww girls love it when guys make an effort! so just be like hey if you're not doing anything tonight wanna hang out? and she'll say sure. then you say ok my house? and she'll yes

good luck!
Reply:try going with a group of friends to the movies. tell her you would like her to go to the movies with you and a group of friends.

-check out my question: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...
Reply:"hey what are you doing tonight"

"nothing, why"

"i just rented (some movie), wanna come over and see it'

"sure and lets start dating too" *



*well that last one might be a stretch but start it out like that maybe
Reply:Tell her you need a tutor in your worst subject and ask her to come to your house and help you.
Reply:Throwing a party is a bad idea....gives other dudes a chance to ask her out....ind something interesting that you both may like and ask if she want to go do it....that simple.
Reply:Ask her if she wants to come over and hang out for a little while. Maybe before that you can go to the mall then ask her when you are leaving. But MAKE SURE!!! you do not try anything the first visit. Don't be scared to ask.
Reply:just ask her if she wants to hang out sometime=]

go to a movie then hang out w/you

no biggie,especially if youve known her a while
Reply:um well, become a really good friend to her (if you're not already). just like um, listen to her if something is wrong. don't be like other guys that just don't care and don't listen.
Reply:open your fly and look suggestively at her.
Reply:Just confront her (being confident) and ask her if she wanted hang out sometime at your house.
Reply:ask her if she wants to go to your house to watch movies.
Reply:Throw an awesome party!!!
Reply:hehe, just ask if she wanted to do something on the weekend go to the shops, see a movie, ask her to your house some other time probably not the first time you talk to her she will most likely take it the wrong way, cause it could mean to her come over to my house so we could get creepy or play video games.. both of them i doubt she would be interested in doing on the first time talking to you or doing something with you.
Reply:Just ask her if she would like to go to the movies with you or something like that and then thats when you sweet talk to her into making her like you.
Reply:start talking about hobbies, find if you like to do something she likes to do. Then say well I'm planning on going to ....... wanna come with me?
Reply:Its pretty easy. Just ask her if she wants to hang out one day and if she wants to go over your house and watch a movie or even just chill out. Once you do it once, you wont have a problem after that.
Reply:Dont throw a big party but have like a small group of friends over and make sure those friends you invite are friends with her too so shed be willing to come over more and when everyone comes over try to hang out with her for most of the time. and after a few times of having people she would feel comfotable hanging out with you one on one. and then you can go out on actual dates and start a relationship.
Reply:You are just going to have to ask her. Suck it up and if she says no then so what you tried!!
Reply:We girls like it when guys express their feelings.You should tell her how you feel.Just ask her what 'level' she thinks your relationship is on.I bet you'll find that she feel the smae way.Then talk about where you think your relationship should go.
Reply:just ask her if she wants to go over and hang out. maybe watch movies or her choice.
Reply:invite her over for dinner but if you dont feel comfortable enough invite a guy friend as well so it wont seem so much like a date
Reply:you better spend some money no no i diden't mean that throw a party like invite outher people to thats what i meant

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