From a guys' point of view?

So I fell for this guy and we were really flirty and we finally asked eachother ages. I told him I was almost 18 and he said he was 24. He thought I was around 20 and I thought he was around 20. So if anything ever happened between us, because we have a lot a chemistry and I haven't found one flaw about him that I can't stand and he's actually a pretty good guy.. does a 18 year old girl dating a 24 year old guy sound THAT bad to you?



I really don't have a problem giving it a shot after I get to know him, I'm just afraid he might be iffy about it since he is the older one.. and he's not a creeper at all so I don't know if he'd feel like he was being a pervert.

From a guys' point of view?
I am a proud father of nine and I divorced after 10 years. I was introduced to a lady who at the time was 21 and I was 30 with 5 kids. I totally feel your thoughts and animosity.



The best thing you can do is just be honest with each other. At the ages your at it is perfectly normal. 5 or 6 years is nothing and its not like hes been married forever and your a sophmore in high school. You should be at a point in your life that you can see the special qualities in a man and decide if its what you want in your life.

It takes a relationship to find that out. My new wife and I compliment each other in the difference of our ages in all aspects including sex. I have great ideas and she has the youthful motivation to try..lol.

We have 4 kids between us and love each other very much and I cant imagine my life without her to correct me when Im wrong, catch me when I fall or to lift me up when shes proud.

That is what it is all about, not (at this point and age) how old you are.

Good luck and God bless you both.
Reply:It doesn't sound that bad...I mean as long as he's not obsessed with getting into you all the time it would be fine.



Don't worry, it'll be OK.
Reply:Well, to me it is not that bad, but you should at least wait until you are 18, because otherwise if you have sex or anything close to sex, he can go to jail for statutary rape even if you dont want to press charges. Also he is older so may want more in less time just wait to till you are 18 and be careful, if you decide to go out make sure to go out in groups that first few times just to make sure he isnt hiding in creepy streak. good luck
Reply:sounds fine by me
Reply:When I was immature as a freshman in high school, I always believed that it should be right for me to date a chick in my grade only, not older and not younger. Then my friends convinced me that when you're in high school, it the age really doesnt matter no more. You can be senior dating a freshman. But in you're case, where yall are adults (past 18), age really doesnt matter unless it's like a 10 year difference. I dont care, as long as the chick looks good and loves me 4 who i am, it's all good.
Reply:I think you should go for it age doesn't matter
Reply:No nothing wrong with the age, go for it
Reply:no that doesn't because ur not a minor and men r supposed to be older aand a 6 year difference is not a lot
Reply:My ex-boyfriend and me started dating when I was 17 and he had just turned 22. I mean I guess you could see how it works out? My ex and me were only 4 1/2 years apart though, and you guys are 6 -7 years. But, really I could imagine it working out.
Reply:will my girlfriend is older than me but i think age does not matter.
Reply:18 dating a 24 year old? I don't think that's too bad. Only 6 years difference, and at 18, I wouldn't think you're too young to date someone 6 years older. My parents got married when my mum was 17 and my dad was 24, and they are still madly in love with each other after 40 years of marriage. My wife is 8 years younger than me, so I don't think the age thing matters much once you're older.
Reply:i'm a guy and i wouldnt feel like a perv, i think ur fine
Reply:Dont give age a barrier to your happiness, Love whoever is good for you. Age really is no barrier!
Reply:ok, from a gay guys' point of view. My bf and I met on-line in a gay chat room. He was 26, I was thirty. We will be celebrating eight years this coming April, 2008. He was born early 1975, I was born late 1970. So about 4 years apart, don't sweat the age difference. I do however recommend you take things one step at a time, and for sure not too serious until you are at least 18.
Reply:well im 18 and i have been with my partner for 3 years and i have a baby on the way... my partner is 25. my parents were glad i was with some one more mature cuz they thought all the guys my own age were way to imature for me.