I am so pissed off!?

i am into deathmetal and i wear all black and creeper shoes,i am farthest from emo but i can't get people to stop calling me that,i know i am supposed to ignore them blah,blah,blah but it still gets on my nerves what should i do?

I am so pissed off!?
dont worry about it, dont let them wind you up, i get called emo too, even though i dont think im not as im into more of the heavy metal stuff etc. people are going too far with the whole emo thing and they assume that anyone wearin black is an emo and are depressed, they are so wrong.

it gets on my nerves too, but there is no way i can find to stop them calling me emo either, so just tell them to stop labelling/stereotyping you, people dont need labels lol.

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Reply:who cares what people think or call you if that is your style that is your style do your thing
Reply:sounds like what you are dealing with is a case of stereotyping. sadly, there is no cure. if you don't blend in, your made fun of. try thinking of your situation as an afirmation that you successfully don't fit in with the popular crowd. good luck.
Reply:you should probably stop shopping at the emo store in the mall.
Reply:stop dressing all black try some colorful colors once in a while get some cute white skirts or a yellow top or just say OMG you must be a idotic stupid person if you think im emo! make them speechless
Reply:u know ur emo just accept it duh
Reply:if u show them that ur angry at what they said...them basically that means they "win" ...most people like to piss people off just to get see angry and make a fool of themselves
Reply:ignore themm.
Reply:Perhaps a t-shirt of your favorite band so we know otherwise
Reply:My friend has the same problem. She's getting pissed but she just ignores them.
Reply:Laugh at them and walk away
Reply:you sound emo
Reply:um...grow up?
Reply:Well, you've set yourself up for quite an interesting situation. If you dress a certain way, it is almost guarenteed that you will be classified somehow. If it's buggin you out that much, then tell them about it, and if it get's worse, tell the to shut the **** up.
Reply:give them a dictionary to define emo. so many people have the wrong idea of what it actually means.
Reply:OK I remember this girl in high school and she whore all black, at first I thought she was SO weird! But I had an assignment with her and she turned out to be really cool. She was SO smart, I never understood why she dressed the way she did, but I learned a life lesson that I tell my kids.....never judge a person by the way they dress. She had an affect on me that I am grateful for..

my point to you is, don't worry about what people think about you.Who knows they may be impressed by the real you.

I can not comment on the emo thing because I don't know what that means.
Reply:the best thing to do is ignore what they say, but if its really bugging you, just let them know. It sounds funny, but it worked for my very close friend. Let them know it bothers you, it works.



Hope i helped :)
Reply:Either find someone else to hang out with or just go it alone.
Reply:just ignore them dude i like deathmetal too. don't get emotional. just be a man and ignore, or kick their ***.
Reply:you cant do anything. people are going to say and think whatever they want, you have no control over that. take deep breaths and walk away, before you're in jail for assault.
Reply:HA HA EMO PERSON! YOU SOUND EMO TO ME!
Reply:well I can understand your point, because that's primarily what I've always listened to, and I've always worn black well before this emo trend ever came alone and i've loved to color my hair with random colors I find...piercings...etc...All you can do is let them talk and be what is truly your self. Ignore it and just say "ok" when people call you emo. Get upset about it and you give them reason to prod further.
Reply:I WOULD ALWAYS REMEMBER THIS IN MY MINE "**** WHAT A HATER THINK"
Reply:nothing be yo self dude *best answer right here*lol j/k
Reply:embrace it. be like "ok call me emo!"

who cares what people think?,all that matters is what you know.
Reply:strip down and get naked, then tell them to look and see if there's any scars from cutting yourself. i guarantee nobody willl ever call you emo again.
Reply:you shouldn't let anyone bother you. you know who you are and nobody should judge that because you are your own persona. put it this way...just see your self as unique. and you shouldnt let anyone bother you or put you down. stand up for who you are...nd dont let anyone change that
Reply:try to change your look a little. like not so much black
Reply:Get a life!
Reply:Ok emo man.
Reply:I'm sorry - and I hate being the one that will have the controversial comment - but I think if you want people to take you seriously, you would have to change your style. I'm totally not trying to be mean and I have nothing against your sense of style - I'm just being realistic, in the real world - people make judgements based on your appearance, maybe it isn't the best thing but that is how it is and I don't see it changing any time soon. If you look clean cut and presentable people will realize you take yourself seriously and they, therefore will take you seriously.