Monday, January 30, 2012

How bad would this be?

So I fell for this guy and we were really flirty and we finally asked eachother ages. I told him I was almost 18 and he said he was 24. He thought I was around 20 and I thought he was around 20. So if anything ever happened between us, because we have a lot a chemistry and I haven't found one flaw about him that I can't stand and he's actually a pretty good guy.. does a 18 year old girl dating a 24 year old guy sound THAT bad to you?

25 minutes ago - 3 days left to answer.

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I really don't have a problem giving it a shot after I get to know him, I'm just afraid he might be iffy about it since he is the older one.. and he's not a creeper at all so I don't know if he'd feel like he was being a pervert.

How bad would this be?
He might not have a problem with it but he isn't just dealing with his opinions but others as well. He'll look at what society is thinking is right. So, even if he has a problem with it, just realize that it isn't his problem but him trying to conform to what society wants.





But hey, if you both agree to go for it, just don't let other people dictate your lives. k?
Reply:You're both old and mature enough, so your age gap shouldn't really be that big of a problem. The only way it wouldn't work if the guy thought he was too old or you too young, but if both of you want to, it's fine.
Reply:it not abt age if u have chemistry with each other there no age limit to love .Be it older males with younger female or vice verse.
Reply:No, you're both over 18 and it's not like he's 40!
Reply:there's nothing wrong with that. my mom was actually 18 n my dad 24 when they hooked up..jus becareful as u would with any realtionship that u get into
Reply:Just be careful. Make sure you know this guy well enough.



P.S. I know a couple who are ten years apart and are married.


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