Guy problems! helpp!?

there is this guy who is in my german class who is one year older than me. ive heard stories about him, that make him seem really creepy. he supposedly asked a girl for a bj and followed her home. idk if its true. everyone makes fun of him and nobody really likes him. everyone in my school says a creeper and they hate him.



hes giving signs of liking me. he never brings his textbook and scoots over to share with me. today he crossed a busy hallway to ask me for a pencil.



hes not too bad looking. he smells realllly good. im not sure if i like him or not, i think i do. my friend reallly liked him but says shes over him now, and is trying to set us up.



should i do it, or should i avoid it completely?

Guy problems! helpp!?
First of all, if your friend is 'over him' and trying to set you up, and you believe her, you've just fallen into the classic testing-the-loyalty trap: whether she realizes it or not, she's testing your loyalty to her and her emotions. It's something middle and high school girls do because of social insecurities and the need to see who will respect them.



Second, props for taking German. Ich habe Deutsch auch, und wann spreche ich Deutsch die Junge spinnt!



Now on to the pressing issue. Chances are, if you hear a guy's a creeper, he's a creeper. I've fallen for some fairly decent guys only to be stalked relentlessly by them for weeks. I've even had to sneak out a bulkhead from the basement, out to the backyard, and to my car to escape one suitor when he followed my trail to a friend's basment! And asking for BJ's is never really acceptable unless you're talking about your aunt Barbara Jean or the store. If you're still willing to give it a go though take a group o' friends out with you so you don't have to talk very much (including receiving requests for oral favors) and also you won't be alone with the alleged sketch.



Play it cool and have a chill time, if you don't act too exited or eager he'll be less likely to move too fast.
Reply:Theres gonna be a million and one ppl who'll tell you all sorts of crap, not coz they are jealous but just coz they feel like it...



I just suggest you go for it, if he asks you out or nething and if you genuinely do like him =)



Good luck! :D
Reply:Lots of guys smell and look good... those things won't matter much if you find yourself filing a restraining order against him.
Reply:school kids tend to make up lot's a crap and be dramatic. If he comes on strong, he could just be awkward or shy....don't blow him off if he asks you out, just say that you apreciate his asking but that you'd like to get to know him better or say that you'll have lunch with him (at school, if he wants) if he deals well with this, he may be a keeper, but ask him about his past relationships and home life, his responses should tell you alot about him. take it from there.
Reply:I hate it when people do that. Outcast a person through rumors. Avoid him in highschool, stuff like that.



First just try to befriend him. Friends is always a good start. trust what your best friend says about him (since she actually knows him) and notwhat the school says. Most people act like a binch of sheep and never really know the person, et always make fun of them anyway.
Reply:I say go for it . Some things are not true and if you don't know if its true then go for it if it is true dump him . [[ if you two go out ]] I have had shitt like this happen and sometimes it's just rumors going around and sometimes its true . When one of the guys asked me to give a BJ i said im not into that **** and he resected that . so i say go for it .
Reply:Go for it. Who cares about what people have said about him. if you like him, go out with him.
Reply:How about first trying to be his friend since no one likes him an then move on from there.



from the way he is acting I tinks he likes you and regardless of what people might think of him I think you should get to know him better and you can make up your mind about him and then I think everything will go smoothly from there.
Reply:avoid him, he just wants to get in your pants, if he asked a girl for a bj and then followed her home, that is creepy, stay away from him
Reply:when i don't know how to assess a situation, I write up a pros and cons list and then follow what it says.



But with something like this, ask yourself, do YOU really like him? will he make YOU happy? if your answer is yes, then there is no harm in trying it out, go out on a date or two and make sure he knows boundaries. get to know this guy, that will pay off best.
Reply:Try friendship first to see what his personality is like and then make a judgement afterward. If you think he's creepy after talking to him on a friendship basis, then you'll know what to do. Some guys make better friends than boyfriends.
Reply:Go for it. There will be rumors about others, thats what happens in high school right? A lot of bitchiness and jealousy and competition. Don't let others influence your life or your opinions because you might miss out on the best parts of life just because so and so said whatever about them. Form your own opinion and if you find he is a creep, stop seeing him. Simple. And if he stalks you...These modern days have a much better police force and support system. Restraining orders are real popular too.
Reply:go for it, dont look back and say what if....
Reply:I think I saw this movie before. American Beauty.
Reply:Don't believe every rumor you hear. I suggest you do it and see where it goes. If he turns out to be the guy from the rumors, then dump him and chalk it up to experience.

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