I feel like i'm going to break down in tears!!! HELP!!!?

So, i'm talking to this girl who is sorta my friend and she said that there is this thing going around that I dated this weird creeper kid in our grade. he is really gross and is a piece of crap! (I'm not being mean btw...) I used to hang out with him because I felt bad for him, then he tells everyone that he dates me and lots of other gross stuff. GOD! I WAS JUST TRYING TO BE NICE!!! So, now when anyone says my name, they are always like "o, the girl that did Josh?"

God, i'm almost in tears and I already have a hard time at school already! What should I do, because everyone is making fun of me and i didn't do anything!!!! :*(

I feel like i'm going to break down in tears!!! HELP!!!?
I've been in your position, and i know it feels terrible. The only thing you can do is remember that *you* know the truth, and your true friends will believe you and not the rumors. Beyond that, if it comes up, correct the speaker gently but firmly: "I did not *do* Josh, I was just friendly with him to be nice." If you want, you could add something like "I thought that was what good people were supposed to do." Once you've made your point, forget it. They may tease you a little more, but it will only be because you proved you were a better person than they were and they feel they need to find some way to make themselves look better, even if it's the *wrong* way.



I don't know about anyone else, but it makes me feel good to know there are people like you in the world. Hang in there; as bad as it feels for now, once the others grow up a little they'll realize what a good example you are and try to be more like you.
Reply:god thats harsh! wtf i would be so pissed. As hard as it is, and as much as you just want to punch all these people in the face, every time someone says that or you hear that, do a simple, "ewh." and theyll figure it out. As far as that kid goes, just walk up to him (when theres other people around) and be like, "what the fck, josh...why are you so obsessed with me, i dont get why your telling everyone we did anything its pretty sad." then THATS whats going to be going around in the halls not, "oh she did josh" but "that josh kid is stalking that poor girl" hahah.
Reply:just let everyone know its not true...%26amp;%26amp; approach the person thats making up these rumors!
Reply:you tell them its not true, but the sad part of this is that if they want to believe it no matter what you say they will always believe that's what happened. you can deny it but the more you deny it the more you convince others that there my be truth to it. when some one says something about it just ignore them and don't pay attention to what they say. sorry that this has happened to you
Reply:Be the stronger person and live through this. This is all high school non-sense that people will eventually grow out of. Keep your true friends that trust you and believe you around, and forget the rest of the world. Let them say whatever they want to say; you think they're going to get anywhere in life being that way? No way!



You know for yourself you didn't and that's more than enough to help you just roll your eyes on those who say these stupid things. Walk in to school with your head up and just smile/ignore at those who say whatever you don't like. Trust me, it will burn them more if they see they're not affecting you.



You're a good person and you know what your intentions are/were at the time. Let it go and just move on! So will everyone else.



I would also talk to this Josh kid on your own time and figure out if he went around spreading rumors. Let him know that he's an idiot for doing that and maybe he should consider a few things before he goes around saying anything. I know you're in high school but you have the opportunity/chance right now to be the better person and a mature adult.
Reply:just let it pass..... im sure something else will come up by next week....
Reply:just say "guys i didn't do anyone Josh just made that up i mean would YOU do him?" if they say anything back that's mean just walk away they probably know that you didn't their just making fun of you cause they can.

but if you get really defensive that might make em think that you did so ignore it rumors go away
Reply:Its high school drama. And yes you are being incredibly mean. Just becaus ehes strange doesnt mean he is a piece of crap. You obviously deserve what you have sewn by being nice cause you felt sorry for him.
Reply:I would laugh at such comments and just say to the person who is talking about you, that they should take a long look at you, then at this boy and ask themselves, "do you REALLY" think I would associate myself with such a dork"?



PULEEZE !!!!!! LOL
Reply:yell at him!!! he is suck a loser fer tellin every1 that when u wre bein nice. maybe if u got a boyffirend(i c how that could be hard b/c of the rumors) and show every1 u don't go fer that type of person. hope i helped.
Reply:People will keep saying stuff if you make it look like your bothered by it. Go to school, and pretend like its nothing. Laugh it off, and tell the jerk to stop saying stuff.

Or start a rumour about him, and how he has a small *YOU KNOW WHAT * lol =)
Reply:You should ignore them, who cares what they think? So what if you were his friend, dated him, didn't date him why should it matter? You did a good thing being nice to him he may be saying those things because he would like people to accept him ya know? .. Or someone else may be starting it up entirely because they have nothing better to do.



You say he's weird but he is obviously also having trouble at school you should understand that, being weird doesn't make him a piece of crap you're not a bad person just because you have trouble at school (who doesn't anyways)



The point is: Ignore them, they'll get bored let them know your just friends but don't stoop to their level.
Reply:I would not worry about what others say because all they are doing this for is a response from you. if you don't give them a response they will soon leave you alone.
Reply:wow...that sucks....

sorry, no advice
Reply:i think u should go to him and tell him to STOP saying **** about u doing this and that even tho u 2 are not dating. Some1 have done that 2 me 2 but i told him to stop. He also stop hugging me (awwww) but i was happy =D that i did that
Reply:First of all, I'm truely sorry for you, that sucks. I know, trust me.

Here is what i would do. It's a little bit hard, but it works. When people make those comments, just ignore them, they'll get bored eventually. If your friends make those comments, tell them to f**k off, or something of that degree. Tell them that it really hurts you, and you could use some support right now especially if you never said anything. Finally, if Josh talks to you again, start yelling at him, loudly. Tell him that he is a jerk. you were just being nice to him, and he is now telling lies about you and you can't believe he is such a bad person to do that. people will overhear you, and that will help sway them to believe you. more help or tell me how it goes. send me an email. good luck
Reply:Don't let people get to you,

If they ask you about it just tell them

to grow up and stop listening to stupid rumors

that are not true.

And talk to the guy about it and tell him

to stop being so immature and to start

saying the truth and not lie.

And just stop talking to him

if he tries to talk to you just ignore him.



I hope i helped

Good luck.
Reply:tell the mother f#cker to eat sh*t in front of everybody so they know your not dating him that's what i would do