Question for 20 or so year old guys...?

i'm 15 (mature for 15, but i still admitt it is a young age). i met a guy (21 yrs) through a friend. i can see he is a genuinely nice person because i am good at reading people, but i still wonder why he is still talking to me. in situations like this i would tell my friends that the older guy wants to get in their pants. he's from africa, articulate, nice, warm, not a creeper. so what's his deal? he isn't too charming, but do you think he is trying to get a piece of ***?he just called to see if he could stop by and say hi for 5 minutes. so...your opinion would be greatly appreciated.

Question for 20 or so year old guys...?
Personally 21 is a big age difference... a year or older over 15 years is too big. At your age, most girls are not able to understand what older guys are looking for. It is a bit odd that he is still talking with you. I'm not doubting your mature for your age, but guys that age would be attracted at more mature women.
Reply:yeah. he probably wants to get in your pants. any guy who is 21 and is trying to hook up with a 15 year old is a predator and completely nasty. he's being sweet because he's expecting eventually he'll get something from you. or manipulate it out of you.



stick with guys your age or a little older, but not that much older. in the LEGAL age ranges.
Reply:Sounds like hes a pedophile, you should avoid him.



Its not normal for a 20 year old to even have that sort of relationship with a 16 year old, not to mention 21 and 15.



Be careful, you should probably stop talking to him altogether and meet a boy closer to your age.