Tuesday, February 14, 2012

Asking a girl out, girls point of view?

well, i've never asked a girl out, im in second year university, but yeah, never really did the date thing, generally im just outgoing and find girls through just going to house parties and stuff, but my girlfriend and i recently broke up and i want to get back out there, but i dont really know how to meet the right girl anymore, bars and stuff arent always the best place to meet a good girl, but if not there, then where!? can you ask a random girl out on a date??? i've thought about this, is it not creepy that a random guy walks up to you and asks you out for coffee sometime? i strive not to be one of "those guys" the creepers that girls everywhere try to avoid... as well, ive heard of guys being persistent with asking a girl out, like, asking 2 or 3 times if they get rejected the first time, is that endearing to women, or just annoying? as i said, im outgoing, and i worked construction all summer so i have a good physique, definitely not a creepster, so any advice?

Asking a girl out, girls point of view?
First of all if you want a girl to date then you need to go to the girls. Think of things girls like to do? My brother in law met my sister taking a ball room dancing class at a university. My other brother in law met my other sister helping out with womans sports at college too. Do you understand what I am saying? Don't expect girls to come to you. when you are taking a class say ballroom dancing you can strike up conversations with them get to know them and then you can ask them out.
Reply:Girls love it when a guy comes up and starts a conversation, and since you're outgoing I doubt you'll have a problem with that. If you talk to a girl, and things are going well, ask for her phone number so you can take her out sometime...



If you're attending a University, there is no better place to meet girls (unless its an all mens school, of course). Your classes, on campus, events and parties are all prime opportunities to talk with new ladies.



BTW - guys asking us out again and again when we say no is annoying and uncomfortable...



Best of Luck!
Reply:look to see if I'm busy, if not, come up and make a Witty remark. I don't mind a good pickup line as long as it is original and not offensive


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