Tuesday, February 7, 2012

Trying to make friends?

I am having trouble making friends.I only have 1 friend that I see every now and then.I always got picked on in Middle and High School so I never wanted to befriend anybody because they made mereal leary of people.I never hung out or got to go to parties like others do.Im 23 and still dont have hardly have any friends.I have alot of friends in Law Enforcement due to my interest and knowledge of police dogs but we dont hang out,just at k9 training.I started working a university in September and have tried to make friends but its not working.I thought I would get to go to parties etc.I made a mistake of trying to meer girls off facebook so it got around that I was a creeper so no one wants to hang out.Im shy but trying to get out of that.Ive tried too hard to make friends here and have been told Im coming on too strong and Ive never been told that before.My boss told me last week that I could be charged with harrasment If I keep bothering people which I dont want to do.What can I do?

Trying to make friends?
I can be this your friend,I am 20 years old.
Reply:Ask one of your friends to introduce you to somebody that you might be able to be friends with. Then start out by practicing small talk. Like the infamous weather topic. Then try asking a question with an opion answer that everyone has an answer to, like, who's better, Barrock or Hillairy? or Do you think bush is a good prez? After a while with those questions, tell them something about yourself, maybe something about the k9 unit, but in a story type thing. "This dog ( insert dog's name) at the k9 unit is so obediant!" Don't talk about mayjor things untill you are really good friends with this person. Hope this helps!

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