Ref question part...?...Ive lost count?

I work at a recreation center.

I also play soccer there.

Im a senior in HS and a graduation requirement is to get 20 hrs of community service, so I run the scoreboards for the soccer games when Im not playing, so Im there 3 nights a week playing soccer and running the boards.

Ive gotten to know most the referees pretty well.

One ref is a very nice guy. He is one of the best referees Ive ever seen and he is overall a pretty good guy.



Here is the thing.

He winks at me all the time. When I walk past him or if we look over at each other. Its kinda like a head nod type gesture, I guess.

He jokes around with me and acts more friendly than the other referees.

He'll pat me on the back or something like that.

He shares food with me, if he goes and gets any from the vending machines.

Tonight, I was talking to one of my supervisors and he was standing behind me and kicked the back of my leg on purpose then pretended like he didn't do anything.

He would do the winking thing a few times and he knocked on the glass at me, like he was saying or or something.

I bought some candy and it was his fav candy I suppose, he wanted some so i shared it with him.

He didnt have a drink, so he came over to the table and asked whos powerade was sitting there and I said mine and he asked if I was sick and I said no and he picked it up and drank some. He did this a few times through out the night and then when I got a mountain dew he did the same with that.



The other night during a game (he plays on one of my teams), I was in the bench area leaning on the boards watching the game. He subbed off and went to get his water bottle which was on the opposite side of me and I stood up so my butt wasn't in the way but when he walked past me his hand still brushed my butt. There was enough room for two comfortably where I was standing. I have no clue if it was accidental or on purpose.



He is not a "creeper" or an ugly guy, hes quite good-looking.



Ive only known him since the beginning of March.

My questions are:

1. Why would he be so comforatable with drinking after me even if I wasn't sick?

2. Is he flirting?

3. What are his actions trying to say?

4. What are your takes on this situation?



There is a twist but I want peoples opinions on this part of the situation first.

Ref question part...?...Ive lost count?
Yes, he is flirting, he likes you, he wants to share and drink after you to feel close to you.
Reply:How about.. don't even go there because of the twist.



I dont think you'd want to flirt back with a man who is 10 years older and already has children.



%26amp; of course he's flirting, he may think your attractive, however for all the wrong reasons, what would a man who is 10 years older want from a girl?
Reply:1. some people just share drinks...i do it all the time

2. probably flirting

3.i think hes saying he likes u...

4. well...if u dont like him...just say ur not interested....well i knew that twist geez! lol jk it was posted in the first one u posted hahaha well tell him how u feel about it, just flat out say it!!
Reply:1. He's wanting to be a part of your life, so he's sharing your stuff with you.

2. Yes.

3. His actions are saying he's wanting to be more than friends.

4. Talk to your parents about him. I would think that the next day, there would be a picture of him in cuffs, being hauled off to the grey bar inn. This guy needs therapy. Him getting so close and personal with you is just wrong. Someone in authority needs to know about this perv. %26lt;*)))%26gt;%26lt;

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