Is this creepy?

Is this creepy?

there is this guy on my bus who looks like Ryan Wolfe (Jonathan Togo) from CSI:Miami and i think he is very very hot. anyways, i think that this guy is 1 or 2 years older than i am. i know nothing about him except what he looks like. i dont know his age, his grade, or even what his voice sounds like.

anyways, i feel kind of like a creeper when i think about how i like this guy.

when i get on the bus, he looks at me and i look at him. i look away, he looks at me, i look at him, he looks away.

im not sure if hes interested or if im just scaring the crap out of him.... what do you think?

and im kind of the shy type. how can i introduce myself or become friends with him without being REALLY scary and making him run away or something?



thanks guys!



p.s he doesnt go to my school.

Is this creepy?
Just bump into him by accident or sit by him on the bus. Most men I have learned really have a thing for shy girls, they are a mystery. I don't think you have to worry about him being really weirded out or anything, I haven't known many guys who get like that. To get something going you will have to make an effort and talk to him or take some homework with you on the bus and pretend to have trouble with it. If you are sitting by him, just ask him if he can help you out with it. Good luck!
Reply:Oh geeze, you sound so much like me.

It's hard isn't it? Trying to get him to notice you?

One day, if you notice no one is sitting beside him, politely ask, "Is this spot taken?" Even if it is, and he's into you, he'll most likely say no.

Introduce yourself. Talk about something, like hockey, who won, who lost, what a great game it was. Or talk about something you heard on the news. When its your stop, say goodbye, and that you'll hopefully see him tomorrow.

The next day on the bus sit by him again, talk some more, and maybe ask for his e-mail/ phone number.

You guys might end up hooking up, and that would be so good for you. But if not, I'm sure your are a beautiful person and that you can find someone else.

WHo knows? maybe if you dated, things would be wierd, or wouldn't work out.

Good luck. I hope i helped.
Reply:Lots of relationships start out this way, we see someone over and over, we have an attraction. The next time you get on the bus as you walk by him say "Hey" and go sit down. He may be shy too. Saying "hey" is not creepy or too scary. After the ice is broken maybe the next time say :"we must be going in the same general direction, I always see you on this route?" If he talks back great, if he doesn't .....his loss.
Reply:1. Talk to him casually

2. Burst out all at once, and tell him you have no idea why you are so attracted to him



Some things just don't make since why you are attracted to people. I lot might be involved with (damn, brain fart) ...hormones... or one of those words
Reply:If I could change the past, I would have been more outgoing and talk to some of the dorks I had crushes on. Don't let this happen to you!
Reply:Be yourself and it dosen't hurt to be nice also.
Reply:next time you see him act like you dont and be diggin into your purse or something then OOPS! You droped something or stepped on his foot or something along those lines... apologize and smile....its a good way to strike up conversation...
Reply:He's looking at you because he knows your interested. Nothing wrong with saying Hi the next time you see him. and the next time say Hi, how ya doing? If he's interested, he will contiue the conversation eventually.
Reply:just go "hey u look like ryan wolfe" "im so and so" and jsut be yourself.
Reply:Start off by saying "hi" always a good opener. If he is wearing a shirt of a band, ask him about that. Keep it light and fun. Introduce yourself.



Good luck
Reply:sit by him on the bus one day and start a convo by saying something like "Do you have any pets" something general.
Reply:Just say do u mind if i sit next to u? he'll probably say yes (he'd seem like a @#$% if he didnt) and just start talking to him. i cant really tell you what to talk about, it depends on whats going on. ask him what school he goes to, what grade he's in, what stop he gets off at (if your on a city bus). And then u just go on from there, make funny comments when you think of one.
Reply:either do it the mean way and ask can i help u or just pretend u knoe him and say do i knoe uwats ur name like if u have seen him somewhere hes priobabbly the shy typ[e also
Reply:Say hi a few times. This may prompt him to talk to you.



If not, come up with some icebreaker, like asking him if he has seen a certain movie.



Is this a school bus, or a public one? If it a school bus, ask him what school he goes to, if you don't know. Does he like it?



Chat him up and see if he talks back.
Reply:the best test is to smile at him when he looks at you.

if he holds eye contact and smiles back he is outgoing and probably finds you attractive.



if he quickly looks away and kind of at the ground or out the window he too could be shy and you'll probably have to make the first move.



here are some videos on reading body language



they are targeted for guys and are...well english so are a bit weird but i have studied body language and these are pretty close to actual body language reading



Disclaimer they are targeted for people in their twenties



http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-chat...



http://www.videojug.com/film/how-can-i-t...



http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-make...
Reply:Ok dont be shy! u need to go up and start a conversation with him. i have a bf now and i didnt know him just like u dont know this guy......i went up and striked a conversation and now we have been dating 2 weeks! u should try it! I bet that he likes u by the way u say u guys look at eachother!!!