Do / did u ever meet lesbians on MySpace?

I'm 20 and newly 'out' (to very few people) but have no gay friends...so meeting ppl is hard. someone told me to check out girls on myspace in my area. Obviously I don't really personally know any of them. I really want a relationship or close friends who understand me and what i'm going through.



Is it ok to just add them randomly and start a random conversation with them? Will they think I'm a creeper or something? I don't want them to think that I'm desperate for friends (although I guess I am lol).

Do / did u ever meet lesbians on MySpace?
my 2 sisters did
Reply:I met a lot of my gay friends online because I grew up in a very small town in Illinois. It was very rural and everyone had their conservative, small-town thinking. Also, everyone here knows everyone.



I actually went to a chat room and started meeting people online. After a while of getting to know them and starting to trust them, I met a few of them offline. I wouldn't suggest rushing into meeting anyone from online, however. You have to be very careful and make sure you are safe. Unfortunately, there are many men out there that will pose as women in chat rooms and even on sites such as myspace. I'd make sure that you establish some other sort of contact like phone conversations before you meet up with someone.



Feel free to email me if you would like more information on the chat sites. My email is shawn77008@yahoo.com



No, I'm not a predator. I am in a very happy relationship with my girlfriend, so there's no ulterior motive here. :)



Best of luck to you, though! Just remember to be safe.
Reply:I wish I would cus I would like to meet more women who are especially gay and not just straight..however, when I meet lesbians its hard to find platonic ones, its like expecting a straight guy to stay platonic yet you go out with him all the time. I used to be gay, I know how it is.
Reply:Come to Australia.
Reply:Not really.



I mean, I ran into one I actually already knew, but because I don't use my real name anywhere on my 'myspace' page, she didn't recognize me...



Which actually was a good thing.



Long story.
Reply:Why don't you try going to this site www.downelink.net. this is for the lgbt community and you'll have more chance of meeting friends there:)

i'm in myspace add me minoceto@lycos.com.
Reply:on most myspace profiles it says their orientation so and you can browse for women to they won't think you're wierd for the most part the people on myspace are nice just send them a message asking a few things about them i have a lesbian and a few bi friends who have pages on myspace and people love them
Reply:not yet
Reply:they will probably be thinking the same things you are but you should just relax and just be sweet and honest . but pick the best personality or the finest looking girl if you want exciting sex
Reply:There is no problem with meeting other gay/lesbian people on myspace. You need only remember that people are people and you should always take caution when meeting others. It's always a good idea to send a little message to someone you're interested in on myspace before sending them a friends request... it shows them that you're digging them and care enough to write a little something instead of simply clicking on buttons. I myself automatically delete friend requests unless there's a message to go with it. Too many people desperate for meaningless friend numbers.



Now... is it ok to meet people from myspace? Why not? All of my relationships have been from myspace actually. My first two didn't work out well... they were pretty short, but I've been seeing this one guy for 4 months now and I couldn't be happier.



Good luck to you and be safe!