I work at a recreation center.
I also play soccer there.
Im a senior in HS and a graduation requirement is to get 20 hrs of community service, so I run the scoreboards for the soccer games when Im not playing, so Im there 3 nights a week playing soccer and running the boards.
Ive gotten to know most the referees pretty well.
One ref is a very nice guy. He is one of the best referees Ive ever seen and he is overall a pretty good guy.
Here is the thing.
He winks at me all the time. When I walk past him or if we look over at each other. Its kinda like a head nod type gesture, I guess.
He jokes around with me and acts more friendly than the other referees.
He'll pat me on the back or something like that.
He shares food with me, if he goes and gets any from the vending machines.
Tonight, I was talking to one of my supervisors and he was standing behind me and kicked the back of my leg on purpose then pretended like he didn't do anything.
He would do the winking thing a few times and he knocked on the glass at me, like he was saying or or something.
I bought some candy and it was his fav candy I suppose, he wanted some so i shared it with him.
He didnt have a drink, so he came over to the table and asked whos powerade was sitting there and I said mine and he asked if I was sick and I said no and he picked it up and drank some. He did this a few times through out the night and then when I got a mountain dew he did the same with that.
The other night during a game (he plays on one of my teams), I was in the bench area leaning on the boards watching the game. He subbed off and went to get his water bottle which was on the opposite side of me and I stood up so my butt wasn't in the way but when he walked past me his hand still brushed my butt. There was enough room for two comfortably where I was standing. I have no clue if it was accidental or on purpose.
He is not a "creeper" or an ugly guy, hes quite good-looking.
Ive only known him since the beginning of March.
My questions are:
1. Why would he be so comforatable with drinking after me even if I wasn't sick?
2. Is he flirting?
3. What are his actions trying to say?
4. What are your takes on this situation?
There is a twist but I want peoples opinions on this part of the situation first.
Help?!?!.....?
Its obvious.He has the hots for you hon.He is love sick.
Reply:I will tell you what is on my mind,
don't let him touch you,you belong to your self.
Let that guy be Brad Pitt,you shouldn't let people just go and touch you.
Two,he is comfortale beacuse he must have done is loads of time before.
Think,do you really need him?
NO.
Reply:get a life dude!
Reply:I think you had better be careful with him...He might just think you have led him on?? Sounds to me like you have a crush on him!! Be careful!!! xoxoxo
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