I have a friend probably the more gangsta, realest, more cool kid i know....but his girlfriend is oooo...whats the word? a whore
His girlfriend is cheating on him, seen her with this 1 guy downtown flirting, kissing, %26amp; etc. I always knew she would/was (she has a reputation for being a runner). I've told him about it but he just rejects my advice to break up with her.
But also they seem so happy togethor, its almost cute enough for me to want a serious relationship. Also I kinda know all he TRULY cares about is sex which I know she's puttin' out (please don't ask me how I know long story). IDK I just think its wrong to have this wonderful relationship but really the b*tch is probably giving some fool a rimjob as we speak.
So what should I do? Mind my business? Keep telling him the ho is cheating even though it will fall on deaf ears? I'm not gonna shot a picture of her like cheating, don't wanna be a creeper. I just wanna know whats the "Good Friend" thing to do?
Friend %26amp; his relationship?
Sit him down. Look into your friend's eyes. And tell him what you honestly think and saw, as a good friend of his. Tell him you don't want to hurt him and that you're just looking out for him. After that, if he refuses to believe you or if he rejects your advice, then that's all you can do. It's his life. It's his relationships. And it's his choices.
Reply:You sound like a really good friend. Standing Ovation for you for caring. Your friend obviously is in denial. It wouldn't be the best thing if you took a picture of it, but if you had to, i guess it would work. Have some other people that have witnessed this, tell your friend. If he doesn't believe them, I guess he'll have to find out on his own.
Reply:time and time again... if your friend loves you more than his girl...then he'd better believe you. a good friend would keep on reminding him.... or you can take a picture of the girl with another guy if he still wouldn't believe you. if you really care for your friend that much, then he deserves to know.... it's not fair for him.. although he is given sex the way he wants it... he still doesn't deserve to be cheated on..... that girl really is a ho if she is like that... sheesh......... whas sl*t... i hope your friend will find a real nice girl for him who can treat him right..... be a good friend... tell him.... or better yet if he still doesn't believe you , get evidence.. and if he still wouldn't care.. then at least you have done your part. you have done what any true friend would do.... good luck... ihope he'll believe you... and i hope he will realize how lucky he is for having a concerned friend like you.... he is blessed to have you as his friend... a true friend you are indeed. again, good luck. =)
Reply:I applaud you for being a good friend to him, especially since he is in denial about the fact that his girlfriend is cheating on him. All they both want is sex and they are both satisfied with it right now. The best thing that you need to do as a friend is to stay out of it. He will learn the hard way and unfortunately it is a part of life. If and when he finds out, continue to be there for him like you've always have been. He should really think about the qualities that he looks for in a woman and not just have her for a piece of booty. Good luck and I hope my advice helps you.
Reply:a good friend tells. Cause if he found out that you knew , and didn't say anything, then what kind of friend would you be. not a good one that's for sure!!!
Reply:You've given him the warning, he's ignored it. He wants the sex, and he's getting it. The relationship is not going to end. If she wasn't giving it to him he'd probably be out of there but he's sticking around for the body, and she probably is sticking around for his. You can tell him one more time, maybe tell him where to find her with the other guy if he doesn't believe it, other than that just mind your own business. It wont last forever...
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