Why am I creepy?

Lots of people think I'm creepy. For some of those people I don't care if they think I am, but even my close friends admit I'm creepy. Lots of girls I know have called me a "creeper" or "stalker", some I know jokingly, but others not so. I just try to be myself, so does that mean I'm creepy?

My close friend told me "If you were a girl, wouldn't you be scared of yourself?" as if it were a joke, but I don't find it so amusing. What have I done to be labeled like this? What can I do to avoid creepiness?

I'm in a play with several girls, and I get the impression that many of them think like the others: I'm creepy. What can I do? It looks obvious likes it my problem, since most of the people I know think it. What's wrong with me that I rub off on people like this?

Why am I creepy?
Some people just label folks creepy because they are different. However, people just need to realize that we are all made differently and all have different personalities. Now if you really are following girls around and stuff like that, then that is a little creepy. Just be yourself and next time they call you creepy just say, "well, you are dull." Creepy is interesting, IMHO.
Reply:Hello brother in Christ, Please don't let these people tear your spirit down....I have been praying for you and asking God to help you understand why you are labeled that way....You have a evil spirit that has attached it self to you....and when they look at you they see that spirit....I don't know if your believe in God, but he wants you to trust him.....He said for you to go ta a church he will show you which one. This spirit will try to stop you but do not let it.....go to the alter and He will show you the rest.......Please believe in what God has told me to tell you....and stop listening to that kind of music and quit watching those movies you know what I'm talking about.... REPENT OF YOUR SINS AND GOD WILL DELI EVER YOU FROM ALL EVIL THINGS.....PRAISE HIM FOR HE IS YOUR SALVATION.
Reply:Heres your best answer, because im the only guy here, who HAS experienced this EXACT thing before.



Always thought i was the only one...





I wonder what year your in?



Listen, i was mostly called Weird, but got creepy and stalker too, and it hurts, i never laugh when i hear those words anymore, they just hurt.





you see i was there man, and i know how you can jsut feel that people around you, dont wanna be around you..



yet... its you. i mean, what is there to do?



My jr. year, i spent the whole year, not being creepy, stalkerish, weird, to the best i could. I had times when i was as cool and suave as the best, yet i had other times when i was "creepy"



its hard to change who you are, but whats even harder is to change how others view you.



you can stop being creepy, but until you get out of school, and to a place with NEW people, its gonna be tough to break how people view you, because even if you do change, and your not creepy for 2 months, you **** up and do one creepy thing, and all those 2 monhs, amount to ****.





But, theres hope dude.



your gonna make new friends, meet new girls, Every year, and how they view you, thats your choice,



some people that your very close to, you can change how they view you, sometimes.



theres hope man.



i found it, and the answer is in a book call, Carlos Xuma: Secrets of the Alpha Male.



PM a message and ill give you my msn, and send it to you for free on there.





but yeah dude, theres tottaly hope.



i'm a senior now, and i sunk into bad times again sadly, but 1 month ago, i head girls asking for my number behind their BF's back, begging me for dates, and trying to rape me.





so yeah dude, ill show you the light.
Reply:Change your attitude,don't wear dark or out date cloths,hang out with friends,read current news articles. In short blend in.
Reply:Well, I know someone like you lol. I thought he was a creep when I saw him, but once I got to know him he wasn't one at all. Maybe you should just change your appearence. Trying smiling more and show people you a nice person.
Reply:hehe, this is funny to me because many people look at me and tell me that i have eyes that seem to peer into their souls or i just have that gaze of a killer. It's funny because I'm the opposite of a psychotic killer and once people get to know me, they forget about it.
Reply:Not knowing you, it is impossible to say. Try to act like everyone else if you want to appear like evryone else.
Reply:Some people think individuality is creepy. F*ck them, be yourself.



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Reply:Try to be more cheerful %26amp; positive.
Reply:are you creepy? are you a loner? do you stare? are you silent and non communicative?

Try volunteering . It will help you to open up and you will have something to talk about instead of withdrawing into yourself.
Reply:this is really personal you need to have a chat not a simple question to answer in one answer with this situation, really need to dig lAT Justin
Reply:it sounds like you might be making to much eye contact. and your staring at them. look you should ask your Friends specifically what it is that you do that is creepy. seriously make a list, and a resolution that every day you will work on one thing that you do that you don't like about yourself, until you have got that under control. then move to the next problem you have on the list . Its not easy but If you really want to make a serious change this is a good way to go about it.
Reply:do you stand too close or stare too long at them? It could be your look.....you may just have the look of someone they wouldn't want to be caught dead alone with. That is fairly easy enough to fix. Since we don't have a pic to go on, though, I don't know what to tell you (weather it is your personality or your look that gets those remarks). Either way, try smiling more; try to change up you look; try not to be morose or vulgar around girls. If you look like or resemble Dwight from "the Office" get a new look!!
Reply:you don't sound creepy to me. maybe the girls are picking up the wrong impression about you.
Reply:How old are you? How old are your friends? Honestly, I think it's your friends that are creepy for saying such a thing to you. To me, that's what's creepy. Though to be honest, I suspect they are just trying to come up with something to heckle you about. If you truly were creepy, they would not hang around you. And I assume they know it bothers you when they say such things, so they keep on saying it. Better to pick on you than to be picked on BY you!! You see my point? Adolesence is a really creepy age, in general. So I wouldn't sweat it.



Keep on being you. I'm sure that's what your friends like about you, most. :)
Reply:You are missing some basic social cues. Because you are missing cues of others, you are giving off cues that others interpret differently than you intend. Sounds like you are doing the right thing by sounding out your close friends and joining in activities. It also sounds like it's not quite enough or not quite working.

You're right to be yourself, but when being yourself creates problems, something's got to change. You can go be yourself elsewhere, or you can figure out how to adapt your social cues so they are interpreted correctly. For that you need help. I'd say see your guidance counselor for help, but in my experience, they are overworked and don't really have time to work with you properly. Is there a teen center you could go to? A few sessions with a professional counselor that you can tap into? Could your parents get you to a counselor?

Investigate your options for getting some unbiased uninvolved assistance in figuring it out. And remember, things won't be like this when you get a little older.

Good luck.
Reply:its kinda hard to answer this question, because i dont know what it is your doing that makes people think you creepy
Reply:I don't know your so creepy... You just ARE!

So.... knock it off.
Reply:this is this persons sister talking. i think it is a little creepy to pop out of no where to random girls. i mean image if you were a girl and some dude you don't even know pops out of no where, that's pretty scary, and that's why you probably got the name the creeper. i know it's sounds kinda mean to say that, but scary if you think about it. maybe you could maybe walk up to them instead of sneaking up in them. and maybe ppl think of you as scary cuz you pop up on ppl all the time. soo like i said, just walk up to them not sneak.=]
Reply:an old friend of mine called me a stalker. she threw me away because she said she thought i was trash and idnd't belong as her friend..but i didn't give up because i wanted her to be my friend..even though she hated me..i like how shhe would smile and how she would help and supoort me. i miss those times so much..so i try to see her more of each day, i try to see her so that she might change her mind.but now she call me a stalker. i found out her sn and her email so i can talk about it..and she called me a creep and a stalker. i don't know ur situation..but if your situation is lyk mine..you kinda see what i did wrong... creep? stalker?

REAL creeps and stalkers don't ahve a life..they dont care what others think and only do things for their own benefit. i don't thinkyour like that..these people are bringing you down..even the people who you call friends..don't let them bring you down. friends should care for you and bring you up. i



hope you can resolve your problem(:
Reply:hahahahaahhaha, sorry but this was just so funny. anyways maybe you should be more social, i find it that "creeps" are usually the ones that keep to themselves
Reply:Because you touch yourself at night.
Reply:For starters, you can get out of the tree across the street from my house, and take the binoculars with you.