What's going on here???

I met a girl last summer, we both felt an instant connection, and although we lived far from each other we talked all summer. Then I found out we were going to the same school. When school came around she invited me to her party. We had a great time. I fell for her. However, from that day on she would rarely talk to me and seemed so distant. I asked if I had done something wrong and she said no.



We talked on and off for the next few months until I finally decided that I had to have done something to make her stop talking to me and never want to hang out with me. So I asked again what went wrong. She said she had been so wasted at the party she didn't remember anything, so she asked her friend what she thought of me and her friend said she thought I was a creeper.



I was shocked and talked to several friends of mine and none of them thought I have ever seemed creepy in any way. Is there a way for me to prove I'm not some creep or am I screwed? I still have strong feelings..

What's going on here???
I promise that you aren't royally screwed. This girl just wants proof that you wouldn't bail on her if you got together. You two obviously hit it off pretty fast; it just felt too fast for her. Simply be her friend. Hint here and there that you want to be with her, but the most important thing for you to do right now is to keep up the friendship. Assure her that you aren't the creep that her friend thought you were. She definitely still has feelings for you. She's been honest with her friend's opinions and she has kept contact despite the negativity of those opinions. Be patient. She will come to sooner than you think ;D



best of luck
Reply:Well 1st thing if she finds u creepy then why r u having feelings for her ???? She may also have said it on purpose because she is on another relationship and doesn't want u around so its better for u to back off..