Ok so there is this kid and he is a creeper. He wont give up about asking me to do things with him. I have made it clear that I dont want to, but for the last 3 years he has not stopped bugging me. I have made it totally clear that I dont like him but he doesn't seem to get it. I dont want to hurt his feelings, so how do I make it clear i am sick of him asking?
What do I do about this guy who wont give up?
Hurt his feelings.
Three years and not listening to what you're saying is clearly not respecting yours.
Don't say no, maybe not blah blah blah, tell him that if he continues to ask, you simply aren't going to reply because he is not listening. And then do what you say, if he asks again, ignore him. Anything else is just giving him hope and he is obviously so desperately enamoured of you that even the tiniest little hint makes him think "yes, i have a chance". This is not helping him in the long run.
He doesn't have the strength to let go, so have the strength for him. If he persists, ignore him. Don't speak, don't catch his eye - as soon as he tries asking, stare into the distance and wlak on by.
You have to be cruel to be kind.
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