Tension in the room?

the good tension that is. i was in l.a. and i went to the shops on melrose. i went to this store and i found a shirt, and i went to go pay for it -there was no one at the register and i looked off to my right and i saw this really beautiful girl, and i couldnt help but smile, and she smiled back, totally blushing too, and that was all we did. she didnt say the usual "did you find everything ok?" it was awkward, but i loved every second of it. i couldnt help not returning the NEXt day, and it was the same thing all over again. i wanted to get her number but i was scared! im a lipstick lesbian, and i would be mortified if she didnt swing my way. i know this sounds really creeper status of me but i FINALLY found her on myspace with the help of a few., and her orientation says straight! what the eff

Tension in the room?
She says she is straight but maybe she is not or she might be curious. From your encounter I would say there was a strong connection. Don't let your fears stop you. Go back and try to get in a conversation and suggest you go out for coffee. Try being friends first and then pursue a sexual relationship. She might just want to experiment with you. Good luck
Reply:um it sounds like she works there and wanted to be friendly
Reply:well you never know she my go your way just for you... but unfortunately don't get your hopes high.. good luck :)
Reply:That's kind of a deal breaker, right?
Reply:maybe shes confused about her sex

or she is a lesbian and doesnt want to admit it

or you got the wrong vibe
Reply:Why dont you talk to her as friend first?
Reply:I say ask her and she what she says because you will never now how she really feels. I know rejection hurts but its better to find out than think what if.
Reply:hey tangerine,

she was blushing cuz she thought you heard her passing gas...lol...there was a little tension in the room.....lol....just not the kind you were looking for.

sorry though...that you found out something different than what you were hoping for on her myspace...kinda the hard way to find out tho... you maybe should have just asked her if she ever goes to the ?''''''?club...(somewhere you go)...then you would have known or at least got her talking.

best wishes from kenab
Reply:are you sure it's her on my space?

if so, you have the info now, that she is literally, not your type.

move on, hon.

I'm sure there are plenty of cuties for you to flirt with out there!
Reply:Don't let the myspace orientation throw you, she could be in the closet or she could be curious. Take that into account with your strategy. Do be ready to get rejected, though, for that or any other reason.



It sounds like she's interested. I would trust your gaydar, and if you get mortified, well, just make sure you don't need to go back to that store for awhile :-), apologize to her if you feel bad about it, and it'll be something you can laugh about later.



You could also try being her friend, and fill her in on your sexual preference later, but be prepared to be just her friend in that case.