Wednesday, February 8, 2012

Question about friend in my dream? read for details?

this school year was my first year in high school. my best friend (or ex best friend that is) is a year younger than me and had to stay in middle school. We used to be so tight and spend an incredible amount of time together.



over the summer she made more middle school friends and started hanging with them. i basically paniced and kept asking her to hang untill she said it got annoying. we worked really hard to stay friends but we just kept fighting and fighting untill she like hates me now. i would give anything to be friends with her again...but i know she isnt gonna wanna be friends with me again.



Lately i have been having dreams of me stalking her. like going into her house, driving by her house, watching her sleep, and at the end of all of my dreams i get caught by one of her parents and get really embarressed. I dont plan on stalking her but i feel like a creeper. what could these dreams mean and how could i stop them from re-occuring?

Question about friend in my dream? read for details?
Sounds like you are entirely too dependant on this "friend". You obviously have self esteem issues and I think you need to seek professional help. Anytime you are having stalker tendancies regardless if it's only subconcious it's a red flag. Please see a counselor or talk to your doctor before it gets out of control.
Reply:Well first, like you because her friend wasn't there anymore she had to make new friends. She'd still have been your friend. When she comes to high school chat with her and become friends again. Just if she makes new friends don't panic, become friends with them too. Also those dreams aren't true, but showing you how you feel. They just mean that you feel bad for how you acted.
Reply:Well, I know that now you think it's silly and it won't happen, but you will start stalking her like that if you don't do something to stop it RIGHT NOW.



Basically, get some new friends and talk to a school counselor. You might need some professional help.


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