Is it normal for a 16 year old boy to not have a girlfriend?

It seems that no matter how hard I try, or how hard I don't try, I can't seem to get any girls to become the least bit attracted to me. I'm not bad looking at all, a little skinny and lanky, but got a good bit of muscle, fair hair, decent height...Everytime I look at a girl and our eyes meet across the room or something, I am considered to be a creeper or stalker because I approach them or something..Is that just the girls being immature, or should there be a better way to approach a girl for the first time? I am just really lonely and lost, and I want a real relationship at some point...Anyone help?

Is it normal for a 16 year old boy to not have a girlfriend?
some guys are just different...its not unnormal
Reply:yeah. I'm 18 years old and enjoying the single life.
Reply:ya.



Well that's just my opinion since I'm 16 and have not had a boyfriend yet.



All the boys at school disgust me.
Reply:the best advice I can give is to do well in school, wear tight pants, and umm maybe play soccer
Reply:i think you should befriend them somehow

and after that, you can make your move
Reply:My friend is 18 and has never had a boyfriend, and she was voted "biggest flirt" and "prettiest." Just don't worry too much about it and you'll find someone.
Reply:I'm 21 and single?



I got the benifits of always being avaliable, hanging out with friends more and not spending as much... Totally doesnt bother me
Reply:perfectly normal, you will find the girl who is right for you when it's time.
Reply:You have plenty time ahead of you, don't look for a girl friend, the right girl will accept you for you. Just give it time.
Reply:yea
Reply:the girls are just being immature. don't stress about it. not having a girlfriend is normal but i know how you feel about being lonely and lost. everyone goes through that. you'll be fine
Reply:Yea it's normal... enjoy your life single while you can...
Reply:At only 16, you have nothing to panic about...Desperation might be coming through, so RELAX...(and remember to be friendly/smile) it WILL happen!! The 'friend' approach is non-threatening. What about your guy friends? If they're dating, their girlfriends should have friends?
Reply:absolutely.

sometimes it takes a while to find the right person. just be patient and the right person will come and find you.

if you like someone, make it happen! is there anyone you have a crush on? ask them out!
Reply:concentrate on other things, you're only 16 everything will come on its own time.
Reply:yes it is normal believe it or not if u hav any girl bf's then maybe u could go out wit one of dem if not find a girl dat u like become friends wit her den ask her out!
Reply:This may surprise you but many of today's celebrities in show business had the same problem. But they worked on their personalities that set them apart that help them become who they are today. Just learn and grow, the girls are not going away any time soon.
Reply:are you serious? I'm 17 and haven't had a serious relationship, why? i don't know. i don't think that what you're doing is wrong i think those girls are immature i would at least talk to you and get to know you. I'm soon to be a senior and my longest relationships had been of 3 months, maybe we just have to wait for our perfect half the is not around us but it somewhere for sure

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Reply:If you like watch a movie in class or somthing or the teacher is talking and your next to a girl or by a girl at funny commetary to it like 'oo hes not ganna make that oooo that was close, yea right like you always have THAT with you"



Also trying lightly flirting like with a girl you know isn't a squiller and will get all mad. Just like lightly tease her or bet with her. I bet i can do that better or ya right i bet you cant do that.



Try having light convration with her. Be like talkin with a friend and be argung over somthign by her and then turn to her and be like ' what do you think'



yea so hoped that helped.
Reply:I think it's perfectly normal. Personally, I think that if this type of thing happens, it happens. Don't go looking for it and Life'll be less awkward. When it's time for you to get a real relationship, you'll know and the other person'll be open to it too.



Everyone's got their own time. In fact, if you rush it, you'll just come out unhappy and bitter. In my opinion, rushing this type of thing does two things: make you bitter at Life or desperate to find the perfect one. I've seen people of both sides of this. It's kind of sad.
Reply:Hey I got my very first and I mean first boyfriend at 19 i deff. wasn't bad looking very athletic.



i found out later that it was because I seemed "taken" not real sure what that really means but maybe your the kinda guy the most girls automatically see as already taken.



(My mom even once asked me if I thought I was gay...)



However not having a relationship at your age is so okay. infact it is waaaay better then actually being in one. Girls around your age are so drama filled and have no idea where the are going or what they want. So i would stear clear.



You are young, enjoy life. Enjoy not being tied down.



My first boyfriend is now my husband. I am so glad I waited until I was ready for something serious and didn't waste my time or emotion on anyone else.



and a little future advice. When you finally find the girl and you settle down and get married she is deffinately going to want all of you and not what was left behind by previous relationships.



So enjoy being young and single. relationships are amazing when it's with the right person. So hold your head up. have fun and keep your standards high, remember girls are far from perfect but the pne thats perfect for you is out there
Reply:Go to a gym and work out. It will be good for you and you will meet a lot of nice people there. Which will help you with your self esteem.



When you look at a girl don't stare . Glance at her, smile, then look away. Do it a few times . That will let her know you are interested. If she looks back and smiles then she is interested.



Get some of your friends and go to an amusement park, the beach, or a concert. You will meet tons of girls there .. Watch your friends and how they pick up girls for pointers.



Don't try so hard. Just be yourself and let it happen. Keep an eye out for any girl that looks at you a lot or gives you a signal that she is interested. Then go talk to her.



It will happen when you least expect it. Someone may like you now but you are not noticing her. Pay more attention ! She could be someone that is just a friend but wants to be more only you are not giving her any indication that you like her.
Reply:no its not normal at all!! i have met many guys that havent had a gf and they are frickin WEIRD!! thats why they dont get the ladies. serioulsy, try some sports, chrome (the cologne), and a shower...