Wednesday, February 8, 2012

If this guy looks at me everytime I see him but ignores me...?

"this guy" and i used to be like best friends and had a fight etc.

we haven't talked for about a month...at all

(until yesterday when i gave him this jacket of his back that i just remembered i had and said, "this has been in my locker for the past month *pause...no response* just so you know..." and he just nodded...with this weird sorta scared/suprised eyebrow raised look on his face...)

but even before that (and especially after...)

he stares at me. everytime he sees me.

walking by he always at least glances.

but yet...won't even say "hey"...

and he just does stuff...

like...i set my stuff down...left the room...came back and he's sitting in the only chair by my stuff! And when i bent down to get it and go outside the room...*STARE*

and when he walked by me and my friend in the hall he looked at me and then sorta hid behind his friend!

what does this mean?

does he want to try to talk to me/be friends again?

or is he just being a creeper?

or something else?

If this guy looks at me everytime I see him but ignores me...?
well i don't know the guy but by the sounds of it he might be scared. Or he might be a creeper. i don't know, but what i do know is that if you really want to be friends with him again YOU have to talk to him about it even if he doesn't talk back, okay. he is probably thinking "she isn't talking to me about it so which means she doesn't want to be friends", but you have to address the problem and tell him what is going down, YOU need to stand up and say hey WE screwed up WE are fighting over something stupid(if it was something small) and i want to be friends again and start over...if he doesn't respond it means he is listening and thinking about it and if he looks at you with the whole eyebrow look that means he will think about it, and you gotta press into him everyday and try to get that connection you had going again
Reply:dude's got issues
Reply:i think he is waiting for you to say sorry but i'm not sure


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