How Do I Get Girls In Highschool help solve my problem (Girls preferably answer but guys can also)?

Im 16 5 10'' 144 lbs and muscular im not the greatest looking guy but pretty good looking but I cant seem to get girls to like me. Im easy to talk to and a nice guy but im a bit shy. Can anyone help me The problem is that ive been Mr. Unlucky and that evreytime i go for something i get shutdown and its made me rather shy even to talk to girls i dont know in the grade below me. im not a creeper and dont come on to girls like a jerk but for all of my friends that seems to be the way that works. What should i do girls? what do you want from guys. How do you want them to come onto you. I mean seriously guys got it bad it hurts to be shutdown and even more by a girl who you thought kinda liked you.



Specify if your a teen because itd be god to know what my peers think.

How Do I Get Girls In Highschool help solve my problem (Girls preferably answer but guys can also)?
I'm only 14 and the first thing I notice about a guy is his sense of humor. I like someone who has a positive attitude and can make me laugh.. but they have to be like clever jokes.. not stupid ones that people tell just to draw attention to themselves. I hate it when guys just crave attention and always have to be the center of everything. I also like a guy who is athletic because it shows they have self discipline, and someone who tries their best in the things they do. I like a guy to make a move first too... For example, I have a guy friend who recently on a field trip held me really tight randomly because I was cold and rubbed my back... and that's the kind of move that a guy should make because it was considerate of him... hope this helps... Good luck :)
Reply:im 19 but remember all that like it was yesterday kid.



be confident, dont be shy worst thing you could do. tell them if they wanna sit with you at the game (basketball or whatever). or jsut be a dick cause i remember that worked a lot. gotta make fun of them. not cruel just teasin ya know. i remember there was lotta clicks so what are you in? you in the jocks or the rich kids? if ya are your set man but if your not then ya jus gotta be confident funny and cocky
Reply:You sound like a nice fella.
Reply:confidence is key. the guys that always catch my eye in a new class each term are the ones who sit there and just whip out there phone and text someone in class. the ones that are kinda smart but just act like whatever. i guess the popular guys. the ones that party. i guess to a girl if she's heard of him and he's cute she'll keep an eye on him. and with me i know alot about the people at my school and there are at least 3000 people at my school. reason for that: i'm kinda popular and people just tell me things even if i didnt ask or i didn't want to know but that doesnt always hurt because you find out the good in people and the bad so if you get yourself talked about in a good way like things you do it'll do you some good c: its a confusing topic.
Reply:you know how you act around your good friends? the wise cracking leader of the bunch?



act like that around the women too.